
(At church that is.)
Option 1:
Become engaged. I am speaking personally by living vicariously through a friend.
Option 2:
Decide to move away for three and a half months.

Love came down at Christmas,love all lovely, love divine;love was born at Christmas:star and angels gave the sign.Worship we the Godhead,love incarnate, love divine;worship we our Jesus,but wherewith the sacred sign?Love shall be our token;love be yours and love be mine,Love to God and to all men,love for plea and gift and sign.
In modern linguistic terms, the story of the Incarnation is the story of how the Transcendental Signified became a lowly signifier while continuing to be a signified.
One of the strengths of Lewis’ writings is that he gives us such an exciting picture of what goodness looks like. His fiction is filled with characters who demonstrate that being virtuous is not a weak characteristic in a personality, but rather one of strength, courage, honour, and power. Lewis gives us pictures of good which fascinate and draw us, awakening within us the hope that we too can rise above our instincts and limitations and do the right thing. Virtue is the ability and power to choose good, which arises from a transformation of our hearts and minds..